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Tamara Bennett

Tamara Sue Bennett (Greenspan)

Thursday, February 7th, 1935 - Sunday, December 10th, 2023
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3.Reasons the Company Collects Personal Information

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Company will use the information it collects to provide, without limitation, services and features to you and facilitate payment for any Donations between Campaign Organizers and Donors and provide information to Campaign Organizers and Campaign beneficiaries. Company will also use the information to measure and improve the Site, and to provide you with customer support.

Company may contact you with new or updated products or services, designs, routes, surveys, or other related announcements from time to time. You may opt-out of all communications except essential updates. Company may include Content in the e-mails sent to you.

Certain software applications and applets transmit data to Company. Company may not make a formal disclosure if it believes its collection of and use of the information is the obvious purpose of the Site or its related application. If it is not obvious that Company is collecting or using such information, it will disclose its collection to you the first time you provide the information.

Company may use the information collected to prevent potential illegal activities. Company may also use a variety of methods to detect and address anomalous activity and screen content to prevent abuse.

Company may use your information to serve you personalized advertising. Company does not share your information with advertisers without your consent. Company allows advertisers to choose the characteristics of Users who will see their advertisements. Company may use any of the Non-Personally Identifiable Information it has collected in any fashion to select the appropriate audience. Company will not tell the advertiser who you are as part of this process. When you interact with an advertisement there is a possibility that you may receive a cookie from the advertiser.

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Company shares your Personal Information with third parties when it believes you have permitted such sharing, that it is reasonably necessary to offer services, or when legally required to do so. Company will not share your Personally Identifiable Information with third parties in a way that it thinks violates your privacy. The following non-exhaustive list contains examples of how Company shares or could share your information:

  1. If Site allows you to invite a friend to join the Site or become a User, and you choose to do so, the invitation will contain information that will allow your friend to identify you. The invitation may contain information about other Users your friend might know.

  2. Certain information you provide to Company may be shared by using the Site’s search function. This allows other Users to locate your profile and it allows new Users to find people they know on the Site.

  3. Company provides some public information to search engines. This information allows search engines to locate the Site. It also allows people to locate you on the Site using a major search engine. This does not mean all information you post on the Site may be accessed using a search engine.

  4. There are also times when Company may make certain Personal Information about you available to strategic partners or third parties. These companies may help Company process information, render services to you, manage and enhance customer data, provide customer service, assess your interest in products and services, or conduct research or satisfaction surveys. Without such information being made available, it would be difficult for you to use Company's Site and services.

  5. Company may also share Personal Information when it has a good faith belief it is necessary to prevent fraud or other illegal activity, to prevent imminent bodily harm, or to protect itself and you from people violating the Terms and Conditions of the Site. This may include sharing information with other companies, lawyers, and courts or other government entities.

  6. Company may disclose information pursuant to subpoenas, court orders, or other requests (including criminal and civil matters) if it has a good faith belief that the law requires such a response. This may include requests from jurisdictions outside of the United States if Company has a good faith belief that the response is required by law under the local laws in that jurisdiction, is applicable to users from that jurisdiction, and is consistent with generally accepted international standards.

  7. Company may disclose analyzed data in the form of purchasing trends or statistical data. No Personally Identifiable Information will be attached to this disclosure.

8. Business or Asset Transfer or Sale

Company may be sold, sell or buy businesses or assets of businesses, or merge with another business. In such transactions, Personal Information generally is one of the transferred business assets. Also, in the event that Company, a line of business of Company, or substantially all the assets of Company are transferred, Personal Information may well be one of the transferred assets. Company will make a reasonable effort to provide notice on the Site, and to notify you via e-mail to the most recent e-mail address that you have provided of any such change in ownership or control of your personal information.

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    Protecting children’s privacy is especially important to Company. Company does not knowingly collect Personal Information from children under 13, but because some information is collected electronically, it can appear to be the Personal Information of someone over the age of 13, and will be treated as such by this Policy. If a child under 13 submits Personal Information and Company learns that Personal Information pertains to a child under 13, it will attempt to delete the information as soon as possible. It is Company’s policy to comply with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 and all other applicable laws. Therefore, Company restricts the Site and all other provided services to persons 18 years or older.

  2. Agreement with Policy and Continued Use of Site

    Unless stated otherwise, Company’s current Policy applies to all information that Company has about you, your account, and access to the Site. By using the Site, you consent to this Policy and having your Personal Information and data transferred and processed as described.

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    Wednesday, December 13th, 2023 | 1:00pm
    When
    Wednesday, December 13th, 2023 1:00pm
    Location
    El Camino Memorial Park
    Address
    5600 Carroll Canyon Road
    SAN DIEGO, CA 92121
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    February 7, 1935 - December 10, 2023

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Erica Kaufman

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Funeral remarks by daughter Erica Kaufman

I’ve never written a book, but getting older as I have, I began to feel life as a series of chapters. My first chapter was part of my Mom’s own story. From the time of my arrival, I think her story became a bit more challenging. Its not that I intended to cause her so much tsuris; maybe it was middle child syndrome, or just that I didn’t like being told “no”. It took me a while to figure out that if she said no, and I did it anyway, I would get caught. That usually meant I couldn’t watch television. I realize now, when I watch ME TV, why I missed so many episodes of Leave It To Beaver. I still remember Marilyn Rowen saying hello to me on the bike path at Mission Bay Park, knowing she would tell my mom she saw me. Of course, I wasn’t allowed to ride all the way to Mission Bay Park from Point Loma, but I did it anyway. Another week of television lost.

But through all of that, I began to realize that she didn’t like being told no either. And because of that, she guided me and helped me turn no into yes the way it needed to be done. She would ask me so many times, how did you get that done? I always said, I did it the way you taught me mom.

I know, like all of us, my mom and my dad had many struggles through life. But they worked through them together. My dad was the luckiest man in the world to have her. I know he adored her and I know the last few weeks they had together were very special. My dad told me she was being so nice and loving and they were holding hands even more than they often would. I feel like they both sensed another chapter was coming.

During the final chapter, there’s a journey we all have to go through. And there are so many different ways it can happen. Many times unexpected, painful and tragic. Mom, you are so fortunate because your journey was perfectly beautiful and now your next chapter is with dad and all those you’ve loved before. Say hello to them from me.

I love you mom.
GG

Gilbert Greenspan

Posted at 05:07pm
Funeral Remarks by brother Gilbert Greenspan.

LIFE IS A GIFT. LIFE IS A CHALLENGE. LIFE IS A JOURNEY

AND DEATH IS A DESTINATION.

MY SISTER TOMMY,–WE ALWAYS USED THAT NAME RATHER

THAN TAM, WAS BORN IN NEW YORK ON FEBRUARY 7,1935.

IT WAS A REALLY BAD TIME. I WAS NEAR DEATH IN A HOSPITAL

AND HER BIRTH TOOK MY MOMMY AWAY WHEN I NEEDED HER MOST.

WHEN I GOT HOME I WAS INSTRUCTED THAT IN SPITE OF BEING 6

YEARS OLDER I SHOULD ALWAYS SHARE THINGS WITH MY BABY SISTER.

SO I DID. I SHARED WHOOPING COUGH, CHICKEN POX ( WHICH LEFT A

PERMANENT MARK ON HER FACE) AND MOST OTHER COMMON

CHILDHOOD AILMENTS.


AS A TODDLER SHE HAD A VERY INDEPENDENT MANNER AND POSSESSED

A HUGE TEMPER. SHE WOULD THROW TEMPER TANTRUMS WHEN SHE

WAS CROSSED. SHE WOULD CRY AND CRAWL UNDER THE GRAND PIANO

IN THE LIVING ROOM. SOMETIMES SHE WOULD HOLD HER BREATH UNTIL

SHE TURNED BLUE. SHE WAS A CHALLENGE. OUR PARENTS WERE VERY BRAVE

AND COURAGEOUS TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD IN THE MIDST OF THE GREAT

DEPRESSION, THE STENCH OF RISING ANTI-SEMITISM AND IMPENDING WAR.

WHEN SHE WAS A LITTLE OLDER SHE TOOK DICTION

LESSONS TOGETHER WITH COUSIN LEILA WHO LIVED NEXT DOOR.

HER FAVORITE POEM WAS “ I HAVE A PAIN IN MY SAWDUST."

THE FAMILY MOVED TO QUEENS IN 1939. SHE WAS FOUR .

IN FRONT OF THE NEW HOUSE THERE WAS A FIRE HYDRANT WITH

DIRT ALL AROUND IT. MY DAD DECIDED TO PUT CEMENT AROUND IT.

SHE AND I PUT OUR HANDS INTO THE WET CEMENT TO LEAVE A PERMANENT

MARK THAT WE WERE THERE. ABOUT TWENTY YEARS AGO I WENT TO

SEE THE OLD HOUSE AND LO AND BEHOLD THE HAND PRINTS WERE

STILL THERE.

AS A TEENAGER SHE LOVED TO LAUGH, HAVE FUN WITH HER FRIENDS

AND RIDE HER BIKE. WE EVEN HAVE SOME OLD MOVIES OF THAT TIME.

IRMA AND I REMEMBER HER SWEET SIXTEEN PARTY AT OUR HOME IN

QUEENS. UNFORTUNATELY ONE OF HER FRIENDS MADE OFF WITH THE

BONES OF A FOOT FROM MY ANATOMY BOX. I HAD SOME DIFFICULT

TIMES TRYING TO EXPLAIN TO THE DEAN OF THE MEDICAL SCHOOL

WHAT HAD HAPPENED.

AFTER HIGH SCHOOL AND MANY PIANO LESSONS SHE WENT TO

COLLEGE IN SYRACUSE, NEW YORK. SHE BECAME VERY CLOSE

TO IRMA’S RELATIVES WHO STILL LIVED IN SYRACUSE.

I DON’T KNOW WHEN SHE MET BOB, BUT I WAS ABLE TO ATTEND

THE WEDDING IN THE FALL OF 1957. IRMA COULD NOT ATTEND BECAUSE

SHE WAS ONLY A FEW WEEKS FROM GIVING BIRTH TO ABRA.

BOB WAS A WONDERFUL HUSBAND AND FATHER WHO HELPED RAISE

THREE FABULOUS CHILDREN. TOM AND BOB LOVED TO GO TO THE OPERA AND

TO PERFORMANCES OF THE SAN DIEGO SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA.

I WANT TO PRAISE ERICA AND MY DAUGHTER ESTI FOR THEIR DEVOTION,

LOVE AND CARE THEY GAVE TO TOMMY.

AFTER THEY MOVED TO CALIFORNIA FOR THE SECOND TIME WE

CELEBRATED MANY PASSOVER SEDERS WITH THE BENNETT FAMILY

AND OUR FRIENDS THE GOLDZBANDS.

TOMMY WAS A LIVELY, TALENTED AND VERY COMPASSIONATE

PERSON WHO CONNECTED VERY CLOSELY TO HADASSAH AND ISRAEL.

LET ME ADD A LITTLE STORY HERE,

JUST BEFORE I STARTED COLLEGE I RECEIVED A LETTER FROM

HENRY RAMET AN UNKNOWN DISPLACED PERSON LIVING IN A

DP CAMP IN AUSTRIA. HE WAS ASKING FOR HELP FOR HIS PREGNANT

WIFE. HE CHOSE MY NAME FROM THE NEW YORK TIMES LIST OF

STATE SCHOLARSHIP WINNERS TO HELP WITH COLLEGE EXPENSES.

I WAS IN NO POSITION TO HELP SO I GAVE THE LETTER TO MY

MOTHER. SHE CHECKED WITH THE COMMANDANT OF THE CAMP

WHO SAID HENRY WAS A VERY WORTHY PERSON WHO WAS USING

THE NEW YORK TIMES TO TEACH HIMSELF ENGLISH.

MY MOM WITH MY SISTER BEGAN TO PREPARE CARE PACKAGES

OF FOOD , VITAMINS AND CLOTHES FOR THE NEW BORN NAMED

SIMON. WHEN THEY LEFT THE CAMP THEY MIGRATED TO AUSTRALIA.

GRANDMA FLO KEPT UP A LETTER WRITING PROJECT WITH HENRY

FOR 40 YEARS. SHE VISITED HIM IN AUSTRALIA. WE HAVE VISITED

HIS SON SIMON IN AUSTRALIA AND SIMON AND HIS WIFE VISITED

US HERE IN SAN DIEGO. TOMMY’S COMPASSION MADE THIS HAPPEN.

IN SUM MY SISTER HAD A WONDERFUL LIFE AND HAS COMPLETED

HER JOURNEY.

WE MUST CONTINUE OUR JOURNEY, CHERISHING HER SMILE AND

KINDNESS.

WHEN BOB PASSED ON I RECITED A POEM BY ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON.

I WOULD LIKE TO DO SO AGAIN.

RECITE THE POEM.

Under the wide and starry sky,
Dig the grave and let me lie.
Glad did I live and gladly die,
And I laid me down with a will

This be the verse you grave for me:
Here he lies where he longed to be;
Home is the sailor, home from sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.

GOOD BYE TOM.
JB

Jeff Bennett

Posted at 04:59pm
Mom (Feb. 7, 1935 — Dec. 10, 2023). Funeral remarks from son, Jeff, Dec. 13, 2023.

As I was trying to figure out how to start this, I did a little reading on the web site of Hadassah, the organization to which mom devoted much of her time in the second half of her life. I found this story from the Talmud in a post by the current Hadassah CEO, Naomi Adler:

A traveler came across an elderly person planting a species of carob tree that would not bear fruit for at least 70 years, and asked why this type of tree was picked instead of one that might bear fruit within the elder’s lifetime. The elder answered: "Such trees were here when I was born, planted by my family and others long ago... Now I plant trees for the enjoyment of my children and others who will come in the future…”

Mom had this same spirit, always working hard in her daily life but focusing on activities that could build a better future for all of us. To show you how, I’ll tell you just a little about her life. She was born on Feb. 7, 1935 to Flora and Harry Greenspan. I don’t know a lot of details about her childhood, but her older brother, Gil, is still here with us and can probably answer any questions you might have. I also don’t know much about how she decided to attend college, but she must have had great drive, since she graduated from Syracuse as a music major in 1956 – a time during which only about 1% of all women attended college.

She then started working toward a master’s degree at NYU while also working as an elementary school music teacher. She loved the teaching, though she complained a bit about how she had to push a piano from classroom to classroom during that first year. It was also during that first year of teaching that she met our dad, Robert, at a St. Patrick’s Day dance; I believe she asked him to light a cigarette for her. On a side note, that may explain why they got so upset with me at age 8 when I plastered the walls of our house with anti-smoking stickers, though perhaps the big cleanup effort contributed to the fact that they did indeed quit smoking at that time.

Anyway, they had what would qualify today as a whirlwind romance after that first dance, as they were married and on their way to Switzerland within about 6 months. Dad started medical school there. Mom was antsy and decided she needed a job, so as she described it, she became a “spy.” Her espionage was corporate, not governmental, as she was hired by the Omega watch company to visit their stores while pretending to be a tourist. Her job was to make sure the stores were following their strict “no discount” rules. Her pay was in travel to the places they sent her. For each place they’d give her a first class train ticket and lodging, so she would trade in the first class ticket for 2 third class tickets and that way she and dad got a number of nice weekend trips. They really liked doing this, but then a major problem put it to a stop – and you are looking at that problem, since I was born only a little more than a year after they arrived in Switzerland.

They decided to move back to the states for dad to finish medical school. Some combination of needing money and wanting a career made mom decide to resume teaching, and she got a job as a third grade teacher at East Plain Elementary School on Long Island. This meant they would need to find child care for me, so mom made what she called “the worst decision [she] ever made” and they moved in with her mom and dad. Personally, my memory is that I loved living with grandma Flo and grandpa Harry as a preschooler, but mom described those two years as “hell.” So I think she was quite relieved when, with dad having graduated and completed an internship, we moved about as far away as possible, landing in the LA area, where my sister Erica was born.

We bounced cross-country a couple more times, heading back to New York for two years and then landing in San Diego in 1966, where her brother Gil and his wife Irma and their kids – my cousins -- were already living. My sister Sara was born the next year, and then mom’s parents decided they wanted to join the party and moved out here as well. I’m not sure how mom felt about that, but her dad – our grandpa Harry – died just 3 months after moving to San Diego, and she and her mom – our grandma Flo – learned to get along well, at least as far as all the grandkids were concerned.

Mom spent about a decade on full-time child care, but she got antsy again. With my sisters still in school, she couldn’t go back to full-time teaching, so she instead got her real estate license in 1976, the same year I graduated high school. She liked working in real estate OK, but she really loved working with kids, so a few years later she opened a Gymboree franchise. I believe she did that for about 4 years, but then sold the franchise, I think because she had some back issues that made it tough to do a gymnastics program with preschoolers.

That’s when she got involved with Hadassah, a wonderful organization whose mission statement says that they mean to bring “healing, in every sense of the word, to where it’s needed most in, in the US, Israel, and around the world.” She devoted countless hours to her Hadassah work, and if memory serves correctly, she was president of the local chapter from 1995 to 1997. I should also note that the connection to Hadassah went back much further, through efforts of her mother after World War II and the Holocaust, but I believe my Uncle Gil will tell you that story.

One of the things that mom most loved about Hadassah was the fact that they treated everyone with the same care and kindness, regardless of religion, background, or anything else. This fit in with mom’s own way of living, and explains why virtually everyone she ever met will remember her by her kindness. Just last week, during my final visit with her, when she was feeling pretty terrible, I commented to her about how her care givers would always tell us how kind she was. She responded that “I suppose some people might get nasty in this situation.” But not her. She was invariably kind and caring right up to the end. And she loved her care givers, especially Rosemarie, who has become a part of our family after her many years of love and caring for both mom and dad. And also more recently we thank Jessica and Olivia and Lorena. I also want to thank my sister Erica, who took on the brunt of the work in managing everything.

Mom always remained engaged and curious. She loved to travel, and she and dad took trips to many places around the world. They also came to every grandchild special event, even preschool graduations, until they couldn’t travel any more. Even then, mom kept talking about the trips she hoped to take, and after dad passed she would talk about going on them with Rosemarie.

She also loved to read. Until just the last couple months, my wife Lisa would always try to send her books. It wasn’t easy, because even though Lisa reads a lot of books, it seemed that at least half the time when she suggested a book to mom the reply would be “I already read that one.” If mom had remained a third grade teacher, she would have kept earning a gold star for reading throughout her life.

Her teaching background also came through in the ways she engaged with kids, especially her grandkids — Ali, Jason, Ian, Grant, and Brooke. From their earliest ages, she was always up for play time with them, and introduced them to many of the games they still play today as adults. And all of us loved her dry sense of humor. Just as a recent example, on a recent visit my wife was talking to mom about how grateful we should all be for being able to live long and full lives, and although she nodded in agreement, mom said “you can say that out loud because you’re not Jewish.”

And that brings me back to the metaphorical tree that will not bear fruit until long after a person is gone. Mom planted many of these trees throughout her life. She obviously had an enormous impact on my sisters and me, on our cousins Jaci, Abra, Esti, and Helene, and on her five grandkids. She also formed deep bonds with many others, including Judy and Gail who are here, and her many friends, including the group that called themselves and traveled together as “the rats.” When you then add all the people who benefited from her kindness through Hadassah and her other work, it seems clear that mom planted an entire forest of love that will bear fruit for generations to come. And given the state of the world we live in today, I don’t think there’s anything more valuable that anyone could ever have done. So, mom, we are very sad to see you go after 88 years on this planet, but we are so thankful to have known you, and we will do all we can to make sure that your love and kindness will live on. We love you mom.
DH

Donald Harrison

Posted at 08:30pm
Tamara was the subject of a heartwarming story that appeared on San Diego Jewish World. Here is a link: https://www.sdjewishworld.com/2012/09/08/an-emotional-anthology-about-hadassahs-impact/

A Memorial Tree was planted for Tamara Bennett

Posted at 02:08pm
We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Am Israel Mortuary
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